1-1 Coaching with Jules De Vitto
A Transpersonal, Integrative & Depth Approach to Coaching
Holding space for who you are becoming, where psychological depth meets spiritual integration.
Who this is for
This work is for those who are drawn towards depth, meaning, purpose and sensitivity, and who intuit that something different is needed, in their own lives and in the world. You may be in the middle of a crisis or standing at a threshold where an old way of living has ended and the next has not yet come into view.
Experiencing sudden awakenings, emergence or crisis
You may be experiencing a sudden awakening, a deep inner struggle, or a healing crisis that has left you feeling disoriented or unsure of how to move forward. You've touched something profound, but you might not know how to integrate it into your life in a grounded, meaningful way. I help you make sense of your experience, support your healing, and guide you toward lasting wholeness, so that rather than temporary breakthroughs, you are invited into a path of sustained growth and soulful integration.
Longing for purpose and calling: why am I here?
You might feel a deep longing to understand your purpose, asking yourself, why am I here? Yet the answers may remain just out of reach. There could be a sense that something more is calling you, but you're unsure how to find it or trust it. My coaching helps you reconnect with your inner wisdom, clear the blocks that cloud your path, and align with the truth of who you are, and with supportive and embodied practices you are guided to uncover your unique calling and begin living with greater clarity, meaning and soul-led direction.
Calling to integrate lost or disowned parts of yourself
You may feel a quiet but persistent call to reclaim the parts of yourself that have been hidden, forgotten, or pushed aside. Perhaps you've sensed that aspects of your story, identity, or truth were left behind in order to feel safe, accepted, or in control. Through trauma-informed and embodied practices, we gently uncover and integrate what has been lost, and as you learn to embrace your full humanity, you begin to live with greater authenticity, self-acceptance and inner wholeness.
Tending to grief and engaging in shadow work
You may be moving through a season of grief, loss, or emotional heaviness that feels too much to carry on your own. Or perhaps you're beginning to confront deeper layers of your shadow, the hidden fears, patterns, or pain you've kept buried. We create a safe and compassionate space to meet these tender places with honesty and care, and through grounded practices I help you tend to what hurts without turning away. In this process, your grief becomes a gateway to healing, and your shadow a doorway to deeper self-awareness, resilience and inner integration.
Facing blocks, fears and overwhelm on your soul-driven journey
This is for those who feel called to a soul-driven path but find themselves facing inner resistance, blocks, fears, or a deep sense of overwhelm. Whether you're stepping into your purpose, exploring your spiritual gifts, or navigating a major life shift, this space supports those who know they're meant for more but feel stuck or uncertain. If your journey feels heavy or confusing, you're not alone, and you don't have to do it alone.
What often gets missed
So much of what we go through is treated as something to fix
Many people today are pathologised for experiences that are part of being human. Grief is labelled as depression and sensitivity as disorder, and expansive or awakening experiences are often dismissed or medicalised. At the same time, much of coaching leans towards goals, frameworks and progress, and many spiritual communities lean towards ascent, so the parts of us that are hurting, grieving or asking for something else are left with nowhere to go.
Times of crisis can be very difficult, and they also hold the potential for us to grow and emerge into greater wholeness.
The approach
Depth
Depth means following what lies beneath the presenting goal: the unconscious, the parts of us we have disowned, the shadow, the grief we have not had space to feel, and the images and dreams through which the soul communicates. It honours the descent as well as the ascent, trusting that what we meet in the dark is often where real change begins.
Transpersonal
Transpersonal means recognising that we are more than an individual body and mind, and that something beyond the ego connects us to wider and deeper dimensions of our being. Spiritual experiences, expanded states and a sense of calling are welcome here, and they are always held alongside the body and the shadow, so that what opens up can be lived and integrated.
Integrative
Integrative means drawing on a range of approaches according to what you need. Sometimes the work is grounding and deepening into the body, sometimes it is about your relationships and the wider world, and sometimes it is about reconnecting with spirit or the sacred. It also describes the aim of the work itself, the integration of the many parts of you, conscious and unconscious, light and shadow, into a more whole life.
All of it is trauma-informed and paced by your nervous system, and it rests on what depth psychology calls the feminine principle, the receptive, embodied and intuitive ways of knowing that live alongside structure, focus and action in every one of us, whatever our gender.
Your guide
Jules De Vitto
Jules is a transpersonal coach, trainer and experienced educator with over 18 years of study and practice in psychology, coaching, therapy and education. She holds a BSc in Psychology, an MA in Education, and an MSc in Transpersonal Psychology, Consciousness and Spirituality, and she specialises in guiding individuals through deep emotional and spiritual transformation, supporting them to align with their authentic power and life purpose.
With a strong foundation in transpersonal approaches, Jules draws on integrative methods that honour the intersection of psychology, consciousness and spiritual transformation. She has completed Michael Harner's Shamanic Practitioner Training through the Foundation for Shamanic Studies, as well as Grief Ritual Leadership Training with Francis Weller.
Jules is a published author, contributing to the Resilience book series with her title Navigating Loss in a Time of Crisis, and her writing has appeared in peer-reviewed journals such as the Transpersonal Coaching Psychology Journal and the Journal of Consciousness, Spirituality and Transpersonal Psychology, and on platforms including SAND (Science and Nonduality) and Highly Sensitive Refuge. She is the senior editor of the Transpersonal Coaching Psychology Journal and one of the tutors on Alef Trust's 1-year Transpersonal Coaching Psychology Certificate Programme.
Client testimonials
I worked with Jules for over two years. She offered transpersonal coaching and helped me achieve transformational healing in my body, mind, and spirit. Through my work with Jules, I was able to overcome intense grief caused by loss and re-build my confidence, and achieve a new sense of self worth and self esteem. She helped me cultivate more deeply meaningful relationships with others, my body, and my heart and I am truly, eternally grateful to her.
Cheyenne, USA
I felt welcomed and comfortable in a calming space. Jules' positive and nurturing nature made me feel at home and interested to learn from her. My experience with Jules has benefited me immensely. She has the ability to guide me towards healing and wellness. If I feel anxious about something, I can think back to her advice and feel calm.
Michael, UK
Jules is wonderful in the sense that she holds the space for everyone, honouring each person's process, allowing the transformation to occur slowly, silently, and soothingly. She is caring, warm and a sincere person who puts her heart and soul into helping people through their self-healing.
Sandra, Shanghai
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Book a free 20-minute call
We talk about what is bringing you here and get a sense of whether this is the right fit, with no obligation either way.
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Agree what you would like from the work
In our first session we set out what you want to explore and how we will work together.
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Work at your own pace
Sessions weekly, fortnightly or monthly, with space between them for what has opened to be integrated.
Get in touch
The first step is a free 20-minute call, a chance for us both to sense whether this is the right fit.
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